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Actually becoming a better boss

There are some changes that should be announced. Things that everyone needs to be prepared for and participate in need a well-thought-out “communication plan.” But lots of change — most change — doesn’t need any announcement at all. We’re big admirers of quiet, humble change. No bombast, no proclamations. In this week’s edition: How to really make a change.

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Emailing when you’re angry

I feel compelled to write Bad News emails because I don’t have a very practiced in-case-of-emergency plan. Somewhere in the back of my mind, I know I’m supposed to dump baking soda on a grease fire. Similarly, I think I know to be cool-headed and gracious when there are work fires to put out. But it’s a challenge to override the instinct to just run around flapping my arms. Or, to blast off outraged emails. In this edition: when to not email, what to do instead, and how to calm your rage.

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Failing

Failure is an absolute certainty when you’re a manager. The big, visible, high-stakes, stomach-dropping kind. It’s too hard a thing to not fail at. We feel it too, and will probably always feel it. Plus, two questions to cut through your fear of failure.

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Delegate responsibly

You already have a list of tasks you know you shouldn’t be spending your time on. (If you don’t, start by figuring those out.) What do you need to add to make each one meaningful? Try looking one or two ladder rungs above the task to find the larger result it’s supporting. That’s where the ownership is, and that’s what you should be delegating. Here’s how.

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Playing favorites

There’s a difference between favoritism and having favorites. Of course we all have favorites. Favoritism is when that unspoken stuff that makes someone your favorite is your primary measuring stick. When that happens, the praise, the promotions, the opportunities you’re doling out detach from the reality everyone’s living in. The outputs don’t match the inputs because no one is actually sure what the inputs are.

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My team is better than me

When we release ourselves from the expectation of being the best at what we’re managing, we free up so much room, both for ourselves and for the people who shine on our teams. If we’re not trying to produce great work, we can spend more time noticing the great work they do.

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Take stock of your team

Good Boss skill: Being able to evaluate each member of your team on each task or skill they are responsible for. Here’s how we do it — and what we’re thinking while we do it.

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